How to Give Your First Blow Job – Step by Step

So, you’ve never given a blow job before? I can imagine what’s going through your head… most of you are worried that the guy will just give you a tap on the shoulder and say “that’s enough, maybe next time” – the “next time” which will probably never happen, after he goes around and tells everyone that you are a disaster. Or maybe you’re thinking how you might end up miserably bad, or look dumb from up there – or you’re planning on getting wasted on a party and hoping that while being completely drunk you won’t accidentally bite off a random dude’s penis. You might as well toss it out of a window of a moving car – just to make the whole thing worse than it already would be. Or maybe you just reached a stage in your relationship wondering whether it’s “the time” to start experimenting, or maybe “his birthday’s coming up” – so why not surprise him with the worst blow job in the universe. Or maybe… Whatever.

Look – NO, you’re not going to bite his penis off. NO – it’s not gonna be a disaster, but don’t expect it to be the blow job of his life either. You can prepare as much as you want – the more you think, stress and sweat about it – the worse the whole thing will be. So turn off your brain, and stop thinking for a second.

Practice will make you perfect, really, if you’re armed with the proper knowledge, you can get good, not just good – but amazing at giving bj’s. Any girl that’s dedicated can do it. Don’t expect it to be amazing the first time, it just won’t, instead, dedicate yourself to practicing and improving over time.

Second – STOP viewing blow jobs as something you “should” do, or “might” do because “it’s your anniversary” – if you’re not giving him blow jobs at least once a week then your sex life is incomplete. Good blow jobs are a godsend, and most girls are bad at it. Raise above them, be one of the 5-10% of girls that actually know how give proper blow jobs, and 1% of those that are incredible. But before you can get there – you have to start to enjoy giving blow jobs, and doing it out of FUN. And it won’t be fun until you relax. So calm down. Breathe. It’s not the end of the world if you mess up.

Now, follow these 3 simple steps, and you’ll survive giving your first blow job.

One – look him in the eyes, and moan while you are sucking on his penis, periodically, get it out of your mouth, and give him a naughty smile.

Two – have a firm grip around his shaft with your hand, as you are sucking, stroke, after some time, stroke harder, follow his reactions, feel him and be there in the moment. You have to stop thinking at this point, and start feeling him on a deeper level.

Last but not least, gently massage his testicles as you are stroking his shaft, and giving him oral, show him your tongue, moan, stroke him hard while holding his testicles – and then, tell him to orgasm into your mouth. He’ll be as fast as a rabbit once you say this. Be on your knees. Swallow. And have fun. It’s not a big deal if you mess up. It’s normal, making your first blow job “perfect” is an illusion, as long as you are persistent at practicing and armed with the right information, over time you will become amazing. In the meantime, your guy will surely appreciate your efforts.

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